Luckily, I think explicitly making a date for sex means that I don't have to worry about luring them in with pheromones or subliminal sex cues (flushed face? relaxed posture?) or whatever it is that would make this an effective technique for seduction.
The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.