Luckily, I think explicitly making a date for sex means that I don't have to worry about luring them in with pheromones or subliminal sex cues (flushed face? relaxed posture?) or whatever it is that would make this an effective technique for seduction.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.