i've been with one partner for 4 1/2 years. i just meet the most amazing women and i'm falling for her. both of my partners like each other and we can all hang out with out any issue. she is the first partner my boyfriend actually "approves" of.
now for my fears.
other partners in the past said they felt like a "side girl". someone who i'm having an affair with, not an actual partner. i never understood that because i gave them so much of me.
my girlfriend is happy with the "situation". but i live with my boyfriend. what happens in the long run? i feel like if we do get serious, she would feel alone while i lived with someone. she says she is open to polyamory, so maybe she would meet someone else as well. i'm just nervous.
would i have to move out to make it "fair"??