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Old 05-23-2012, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Arrowbound View Post
And can I just say, from an outside perspective without all the details, your husband's deep involvement in C's situation is...strange. Almost a week visiting them? I dunno. Strikes me as odd.
I agree. It is odd. And what about his friend, her boyfriend? Won't it jeopardize his friendship with the guy if he steps in, swoops her way, brings her home, and keeps her as a lover? Or does he see having her as totally worth losing his friendship with the guy, which is a definite possibility, I would think?
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