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Old 05-23-2012, 06:05 AM
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With regards to your territorial feelings, it's normal to feel that way. The crazed, uneasy thoughts of a metamour becoming pregnant took hold and I couldn't shake it in the beginning, even though my s/o had yet to become physically intimate with anyone else. Eventually I calmed down and realized I was getting ahead of myself, what with everything not moving nearly as fast as it was in my head.

I do think y'all need to reconsider this plan to move her in as your girlfriend though. If this relationship ends she'll need friendship, not an intro into poly.

And can I just say, from an outside perspective without all the details, your husband's deep involvement in C's situation is...strange. Almost a week visiting them? I dunno. Strikes me as odd.

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