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Old 05-22-2012, 09:31 PM
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Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post
Gia confided in me that, while she and Eric did manage to have sex the night I babysat for them, which was the whole point, in my mind, of me offering to take Bee to my place, it was... not the best ever. She says that she knows it's normal for desire to wax and wane over the course of a long-term relationship, but that she thinks the stress of so rarely having any time to themselves, so rarely having a serious conversation because they're always either focused on the baby or exhausted, is taking its toll on their intimacy. It's a pretty normal conundrum for new parents, but it sucks. :/
This is totally NORMAL. While their heads were into it, their bodies were still feeling the effects of stress and exhaustion topped off with a bit of anxiety over "making it good", since it's been so long and might be again. I'd just keep offering to babysit on a regular basis and give them time to just decompress with each other without the performance anxiety.

Threesome action sounds fun too.
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