Originally Posted by TheLizardQueen
to elaborate...i cant think of any actual reasons anyone would feel cheated other than the fact this is new for us and society's version of marriage is all we have known till now. it must be really drilled into my subconscious that monogamy is the right way. i really dont feel that its my normal rational thought process though... as far as the bf rubbing me the wrong way i think its a personality clash. things like the fact he is a show off, brags too much, is pretty selfish...tries to correct people unnecessarily just to make himself feel superior. pretty immature really the more i know him, the more i wish he'd never speak lmao
Sounds more of a problem with the bf and how he isn't right for you than anything else. Your cheating yourself by settling for someone you don't particularly like or respect.