I'm sorry there's so often another shoe to drop when things seem to be taken well.
I'm sure she'll come around, though, with time. *hugs*
I hate it particularly when somebody wants to closet me for their comfort. There are environments where I wont be out if I feel like it, but I will not give the choice to somebody who is ashamed of me. It does hurt when you are given the whole "what will people think" speech, I know.