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Old 05-21-2012, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Sugarbooger View Post
The problem is, I want to still get laid! I have candidates, and feel like I shouldn't take up any offers just because shit is so complicated. Has any of this ever happened to anyone here?
When you agreed to divorce yet still live together, was there any discussion about having sex with other people? Is there any way you can not sleep in the same bed together until you finalize things? Even an air mattress in a spare room might help. I think if you two weren't sleeping in the same bed, it would make getting laid easier. I don't think it's a bad thing to go and get some action, but I would be careful about where and when it happens, and not to rub your husband's nose in it by coming home smelling of sex and things like that.
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