Originally Posted by corey
My girlfriend brought out that she wants open relationship. And she says she loves me and this bring us closer and she says the other people dont mean anything to her.
(Emphasis mine) this is the part that bothers me a little.
So is what she is looking for casual hook-ups for sex that emotionally mean nothing to her?
The major part of what polyamory is (as opposed to swinging) is the idea that the various people in your life mean a LOT to you.
I think if I were in your shoes I would want some definite clarification of what she wants, and then establish the expectation that her actions match her words...