Well true love is always a rare find, one to be treasured. Heck, my main regrets in life come from not having appreciated what I already had. So kudos to you as you seem to have your priorities well in order.
"Anyway what's your story?"
Oh, I'm just a guy who transitioned (somewhat awkwardly) from traditional monogamy into a poly-fi V. I've lived in three states so far: Utah, Michigan, and (now) New Mexico. I've been in Albuquerque since 2008. Interesting to see your location isn't all that far from my neck of the woods.