Yes S dose know about N. S and I talk about everything. N seems to be keeping me a secret from her....what ever she has. Lol she tells me she has just friends and its easyer for her that way but something doesn't add up. Witch is one of the reasons y I am taking it slow with her. I am very honest about everything with my wife and my friend, it's the only way this could work..honesty the key besides I couldn't feel wright as a person if I ever lied to my wife. We've been throw so much together, I would be stupid to throw all that away over a " thing " for some girl who I can't even trust. Any way i really don't think n and us will work out.