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Old 05-21-2012, 03:29 AM
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Hello Dave,
Welcome to our forum.

It always amazes me how society overall seems to accept cheating (which isn't honest) more easily than polyamory (which is honest). It's just conditioning, I suppose, and most people have that conditioning to overcome.

Perhaps you and N could have a talk sometime and see if you can come to a mutual agreement about where you'd like your relationship to go. Set some goals even, perhaps. I assume S knows about N and is okay with it? Always double-check any assumptions, no matter how obvious something seems.

There is a lot of potential for you (and S, maybe N as well) to find a lot of happiness through polyamory. Just take it slow, and learn as much as you can along the way.

Glad you could be with us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T.
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