Maybe your husband is afraid he's not good enough, and that you'll see your friends doing this, and then you'll want it too, and then he'll lose you. I could imagine that.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)