I don't have some explicit suggestions for you, I just wanted to compliment you on the way you handled things so far. Such a calm, structured and clear start into things is admirable. You seem to have a good feel for situations and a strong basis you can count on. Wishing you luck on your way
Sounds promising to me.
Facts: 30, female, bi, v-type relationship with Sward (husband, straight, mono) and Lin (boyfriend, straight, mono), poly-fi and co-primary.