Sugarbooger checking in
I lurked for a while and posted way back, now I'm back again.
Things have changed quite a bit since my last post.
I've realized I opened up my marriage for the wrong reasons, the hard way. Without launching a huge post, let's just say me realizing who I was as a queer poly person lead to a bunch of other realizations and now I'm going to file for divorce, and I broke up with our lover a while back. She just had a value system that was really different than mine and I wasn't willing to negotiate some terms. It's been a heartbreaking lesson. I'm sure my soon-to-be ex still sees her, and I actually am kind of happy for them in an odd way. They're good for each other.
I felt if I was in this boat, I couldn't come back here, I wouldn't be welcome, but realized that was just silly talk.
I'll continue to read and get all the information I can get so I can succeed as a single ethical slut.
"I know what I am, I know what you think I am, but I refuse to be that simple." - Nomy Lamm