There's definitely been times when I've thought things would be so much simpler/happier if we were both single.
There hasn't really been any of that now. I'm uncertain about our own relationship. I felt like I was just starting to figure out how all the pieces fit together, but now they're scattered again and I have to start over.
I felt a bit of guilt the first few days. That got resolved quickly because it was completely irrational. Their issues don't really have anything to do with my personally, and very little to do with poly even.
I feel concerned for him mainly. This is a huge upheaval of the things that he's affirmed as important to him. He's rearranging his life. I have some selfish concern that I might not like what he comes up with. Fear of the unknown I guess.
I'm not sure how he feels about it. I don't know what he wants, and I don't think he knows either. That's the hardest part. Not knowing how to support him.