Originally Posted by MrFarFromRight
is I've seen posts with titles like "Kansas Couple Looking For Another Female For A Threesome".
That is perfectly fine in the personals section, as we've not been overrun with swinger ads (although I don't check those boards often). I'm wondering if I've missed threads on the discussion boards that most distinctly aren't about poly.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.