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Old 05-15-2012, 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted by MrFarFromRight View Post
But fair is fair, and she's got to see that. Invite her to read this thread, read our comments. (I just hope that she isn't going to hate me, that she'll see that I sincerely have her best interests and her long-term happiness at heart as much as yours. Hell, I don't know either of you. Why should I take sides? I just know - from personal experience - that jealous, insecure people aren't very happy. And I'd like for her to be happy.)
Polypenguin's gf is a member here - username is Genebean - and her threads about their situation are here:

ugh. Tough stuff.

confused/upset you name it..
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