Yeah, I stopped going down there about 5 years ago - we had gone to a poly gathering in Central Park for the big NYC poly group and found it didn't really fit with the sort of events that we were looking for. both of us were rather "poly and that's it" and it seemed like most of the others there very strongly embraced the "poly and..." philosophy - the "and ..." being pagan, GLBT, kink, whatever and the crowd wasn't very welcoming of two rather "business casual" folks....
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