why is there such a line between genders?
that is when it comes to sex? Most guys I suppose would probably consider their girlfriend/wife having a three some with another person assuming it's a woman. Many wemen would consider having a three some with their boyfriend/husband, assuming it's with a girl. But why nothing else? Why the damned defining line between the two genders?
i'm just so frustrated. She's perfectly fine (so she says) with me having sex with another man. (just to clarify, i'm not bi, but I believe whatever happens in the heat of the moment is ok.) but she can't stand the idea of me with another woman. I don't know how to help her understand that it has nothing to do with any inadiquicies of her own.
I feel like she is beginning to hate me for wanting to be poly.