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Old 05-13-2012, 10:34 PM
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There are many version os "open" - that is an overloaded word that means different things to different people - what do you understand by the term?

Some other questions - you say that the person you are looking for needs to be single - do you have a preferred age range? You don't give any idea of your own ages. If the lady has a child from other relationships, is that ok? Do you have any pet preferences?

The more information you give, the better the chance of finding folks that stand a chance of fitting your needs and you not wasting your time on folks that are non-starters?

An analogy I have used before is the idea that if company were to put an ad in the paper saying "Looking for workers, send email to" then they may get bombarded with folks that just don't fit what they are looking for, or nobody will apply because they need more information.

Make sense?

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