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Old 05-13-2012, 07:04 PM
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If you do a tag search for the word "boundaries" or "boundary," and the phrases "boundary negotiation" and "boundary setting," you will find lots of threads on the topic, which will surely give you some insights.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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