Thank you for your thoughts. I do agree that enabling cheating is wrong. I feel more comfortable hearing another persons similar thoughts. thank you. I do feel my husband does tend to justify that its not his relationship and therefore does not take responsibility. However, I feel it very uncomfortable. Thank you. I will stick to my guns. Truly sorry for the rant last night, but greatly appreciate the thoughts. I have been poly for many years and just never knew it. But one thing I wont tolerate is intimacy thats not inclusive to all those involved. Sometimes just having a place to vent actually helps you to come to your own conclusion
I did talk to my hubby this morning and he agreed what he was thinking was wrong to enable cheating. he agreed it better to not have the temptation around; and so we will be stopping one piece of our life and moving onto a better one for all.