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Old 05-10-2012, 10:38 AM
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If you think she will understand the reasons to not tell about stuff, then it's probably safer. I don't know the person at all, of course. I was just thinking, what is the likelihood of her finding out without you telling her and how bad will that be, vs. what the likelihood is that if you tell her she will tell somebody and that somebody tells another person, and it will get out, and how bad will that be if it happens. If you think it's likely she'll find out, then I'm sure it's better it comes from you (since you'll be able to tell her how it is, and ask her to not talk about it just yet).
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