Originally Posted by BaggagePatrol
It also makes me nervous to have my profile up online, given that I have a high profile in my community. I have listed myself as being a member of a neighbouring community about an hour and a half away, and have been upfront with those that I am actually interested in about my actual location. I usually only last a couple of weeks before I get too freaked out by it and pull my profile down... we'll see how it goes.
In your settings at OKC, you can select to have your profile viewable only by members who are logged in. That makes it a little less public.