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Old 05-07-2012, 07:37 AM
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Originally Posted by polypenguin View Post
so here we are three or four months after that, and she now has a girl whom she's not dating, but fools around with, and a boy whom isn't her boyfriend yet, but they are very much in love (and have been for five years). Both of her lovers/lusters are free to be with whomever they choose.
It sounds like Genebean's not really getting very involved with either of them. One is emotional and the other is just "fooling around." Is that correct?
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