I just want to throw in...if you mean at burning man you are free to be with people again and can start having sex with whomever you want - I would say that sounds like a bad idea. To me my partner wandering off our campsite at burning man to have casual sex would be just as over my head and scary way to watch them dip their toes into seeing others again as a foursome as a first poly experience would be.
So if that is the plan, do you think it might be smarter and more emotionally safe for her if you mean you'll start seeing/sleeping with people locally after that date? I do think being at a safe place like home for those emotional experiences is going to be a much smoother way to go from what I've read from you two so far.
Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.
Last edited by Anneintherain; 05-07-2012 at 06:01 AM.