I'm in a somewhat similar situation. I've been in a relationship w a M2F transgirl all this year. I've also been dating others, mostly men, some bi, some straight. However, I would like to see a bio (cis-gendered) woman sometime, since my lover is pre-op and my real life exp w women is limited to a couple brief encounters when I was in my late teens.
Please read my other posts to see how ive been dealing w jealousy, feelings about fear of competition and potential for loss, envy, anxiety, etc. I've been blabbing about that a lot here since I joined a couple weeks ago.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 60) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 38) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (monogamish, 42, M) since Oct 2015
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years