I've been thinking a lot about the different grades of attraction there is, or more like that not everything is purely sexual attraction. I can feel very passionate about someone's writing and opinions and arguments, and then when I see them, they are okay. Nice, but don't make me feel any tender flushes inside my chest - no increased heart-rate, no short-of-breathness, no weird tummy processes I usually associate with sexual excitement/having a crush. I still immensely enjoy the convo, but I don't want to jump them. It's an intellectual attraction first and foremost.
Me: bi female in my twenties