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Old 05-06-2012, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted by HotPepper View Post
And don't you, and others who read this, feel more liberated overall? Not just in relationships but in other aspects of life? I do.
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Actually, no. Not only is my relationship not protected by any law, I get to keep it mostly under wraps so future employers can't say "Oh, she's unfit for this career." Being poly has also not magically solved the disability thing or the one-crisis-away-from-poverty thing.

I did all the hard work of liberating myself from the things that were fixable myself, and I'm proud of that. Only a small part of that has to do with polyamory.
I relate the most to your sentiments in terms of answering HP's question, LFG. It has been an ongoing process, over time, and poly is just another part of that.
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