Originally Posted by lovefromgirl
It's not, though.
Because a surefire way to get him out of society, stop him doing this to anyone again, and maybe free Jay from the abuse is prosecution.
Hence why I brought it up at all.
I'm not gonna lie, I have thought about it and did a little bit of research. But its an extremely difficult crime to prove, and what usually happens is the plaintiff, me in this case will end up dragging my own sexual history in a public court without even a guarantee of conviction. Like u said they do have those comparison tests, so I think I just have to play the waiting game and see if I am positive myself.
When it comes to jay its just so incredibly frustrating. I just can't understand why he would stay with someone who treats him so poorly. I don't think he will be going anywhere any time soon, he is just terrified of having "wasted 5 years".