Alexandra I see it as a bubble where it all floats around actually and we gravitate at different times to different things... at least I do.
Ceoli, I think I am getting where you are coming from. I think the problem lies in giving it all the names of "poly" and "mono". For me, I get what you are saying when I think of the feeling that is accomplished when one feels "full" as we were talking about in another thread. I feel "full" in a different way than mono. I feel "full" now that I have the men I do in my life. Mono feels full now that he has his one and only me in his life. In that respect the two definitions and wiring merge. I would not identify as mono or poly in this sense, just in "relationship."
Am I getting close to getting it?
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