I'm sorry that this is such a common story for people entering into a triad as the third. At least you aren't alone in that. It sucks and is unfair.
I really hope that your health isn't in jepordy too! Remember to get tested again in 6 monthes as it can take that long to show up on a test.
I think if you are patient this could turn around. I can't see how their relationship will last now. Once they have had time to sort out their affairs with one another maybe then you can see if this man you love is available.
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