Originally Posted by SeventhCrow
There's no single way to do poly.
This one sentence is a big thing for me and really the thing I try to convey most to those who are asking me about poly. I run across those who want a definite "how does this work" answer and those who have preconceived notions about what it means to be poly. I try to get them to understand that poly is what you, and your partners(s), make it for yourselves.