Originally Posted by Erosa
That's something I am fast learning; polyamory is not for those with excessive amounts of self learning yet to do.
It is good you and your husband were able to let her walk free though. Do you mind if I PM you? You sound like you have some insight I might like to delve into.
Feel free to PM me anytime... the funny part is, SHE was the poly one. We did not and do not identify as poly. We just happened to fall in love. Unexpectedly, and unplanned... but then isn't true love always that way?