Thank you for your reassurance. I didn't expect anyone to tell me I had made any bad choices, but it sometimes seems like I read a lot of messages from the frequent posters along the lines of "she doesn't owe you anything, this is your problem, deal with it".
Which is true actually. It's not her fault, and I am looking for advice on how to deal with it.
We are both poly, and were poly when we met. We don't live together but that is only by her choice, and I have let her know I would welcome it. I really don't want to go into too many personal details about my time with other gf's or hers with other bf's, but I really don't think that's the issue. It really boils down to her simply not feeling as intensely for me as I feel for her. I'm just looking for advice on how to get over the hurt, over the heartsick.
thanks for writing - bw