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Old 05-04-2012, 11:34 AM
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There are many people for whom a poly/mono arrangement works, where the monogamous partner accepts that the poly partner has other people in his or her life, but doesn't seek that out for themselves. Perhaps this could be a place you might reach at some point. It would take lots of talking, soul-searching, and negotiating.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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