Originally Posted by nycindie
This is true but polyamory doesn't automatically mean high drama. It doesn't have to turn into a roller-coaster ride. With forethought, honesty, consideration, and a willingness to go slowly, moving from mono to poly can actually be a smooth transition.
Not saying it can't under normal circumstances. However, when your pregnant, moving, changing your hair style, or Target not having your favorite toilet paper equates to HIGH drama. Just saying don't start this for the first time while pregant/postpartum. Small stuff that would normally be handled with a simple conversation will become catostrophic. Get comfortable with the situation before getting pregnant or wait for a good while afterwards.