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Old 05-04-2012, 03:44 AM
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Why do you think you should be involved with his other girlfriends? You don't have to be. I wouldn't try to force the issue with someone who isn't interested. Just enjoy your relationship with the guy, and be happy with polite, respectful friendships with your metamours. If you want an additional partner, you have a whole world out there...
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/

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