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Old 05-04-2012, 03:33 AM
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So, just read your post. It seems like you and your hubs are really focused on sex rather than developing relationships, so I'm not sure a poly forum is really where you will get the answers or community you seek, although there are plenty of people here who also swing. It does sound like you'd both be more at home on a swingers' site, though. You are definitely welcome here, of course! Are either of you interested in the emotional, romantic aspect of having additional partners, or is it mostly for recreational sex?
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