Please do a tag search for "unicorns" here. There is lots written on it and it could be helpfui. Also, take a deep breath and slow down. Spending 24 hours on a first date is a bit much I think. Slow it all down. Small dates leading up to a sexual one means there is time between to gain perspective and have time to communicate alone with partners. It sounds to me like this all went too fast.
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