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Old 05-03-2012, 04:46 AM
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I poured my heart into this letter, telling him how emotionally devastating the excessive porn viewing was and how desperately I need the romance and intimacy in my life for me to be happy. I was very communicative in this letter so there wasn't any doubt about what I was concerned about. I said I really didn't want him viewing porn more often than he was sleeping with me.

He was good for the first....week and a half-ish? And now he's back to watching it way more than he's with me again, even though I told him the issue was emotionally devastating me.
Okay, you both have to visit this site, which talks about the damage excessive porn does to men's sexual abilities, their relationships, and the brain. Also has articles on porn addiction and how to break the habit:

http://yourbrainonporn.com/
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