Poly and the Military
So a post in the D&F/NA boards got me thinking, and even though I posted the question there, not everyone frequents those boards, so thought I would aks it here.
Are there are folks on here who are active military? (Failing that, anyone who knows enough about the topic to contribute).
What is the military's attitude towards polyamory? I know they take a dim view from a security situation when it comes to extra-marital relationships - honey trap risk and the like. Can you be "out" as a poly person in the military, do they have a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, or is it an "Ask, and lie about, and hope you don't get caught" policy?
Even more - I'd be interested to know the different attitudes with different country's military policies.
"Listen, or your tongue will make you deaf." - Native American Proverb