Hi there - I'm definitely not what you are looking for, but have a question about what you wrote - what is the situation for poly folk in the active military? I have had enough experience in a past life with security clearances, and they often look at extra-marital relationships as security risks. Is that something you have to take into consideration at all?
Does the military have a "don't ask, don't tell" policy around this, or DO they ask, and if you answer truthfully or get caught, you're out?
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