Originally Posted by drtalon
Do you personally know any people in successful poly relationships? Maybe you would benefit from seeing some examples of it working. And talking face-to-face about your fears might be more productive.
Have you looked for poly meetups in your area?
Kind of, but the poly family we know is...pretty far out there. (1 dude + 3 co-primaries, including a 19 year old who moved in with them immediately after their first date and is referred to as a spouse after 3 months of dating.)
We actually have a double date with a poly couple from OkCupid coming up; I don't know if it will end up being a friend thing or what.