Originally Posted by Josie
During the 1st 5 months he talked of her often and was endlessly comparing me to her. There were also many suggestion that I should change my fashion style or hair colour etc. and each of these suggestions would have made me more like her.
This is also a huge red flag for me. I never understand why anyone would want to drastically change their appearance at the request of a partner especially when that request is grounded in looking like another person. That really bothers me.