Originally Posted by Deerinthewoods
So we have mutually agreed not to have sex because its just not working right now. It allows us to work through all the other issues in our marriage.
This has me confused. When I'm an emotional basket case sex doesn't work for me either, so I understand not making sex a primary focus or goal when your together, but I don't understand cutting it out all together.
I agree with NYCindie it sounds like a neutral third party (marriage counselor) would be extremely helpful. Does she have some deep religious background or a bad experience that is fueling this aversion to therapy?