Originally Posted by Pheline
Surely if people would be so considerate and honest to their partner in the first place....than cheating would not be necessary?
In my view this long drawn out approach of coming out may cause in the long run more pain rather than less...
Yeah, it's b.s. But we didn't make the rules. And because the rules are so crappy it's actually easier to cheat then to tell the truth. So I don't know about you, (I cheated too) it was just the easy way to get what I wanted, rather then the right way.
Now I live an proper life, but it took a serious error on my part to get there.