Hi and welcome!
Don't be shy about starting a new thread in the Poly Relationships Corner
if you are looking for feedback on a personal issue, or the General Poly Discussions
area if you want to understand some poly concepts or generally agreed-upon best practices. You can also start a blog thread in the Life stories and blogs
forum where it can be a journal for you and debate/argument is not allowed.
There is also some good stuff in the Golden Nuggets
section (I highly recommend the Online Poly Resources
thread) and, of course, the Guidelines
When you feel ready for some advice, ask away!