A lot of people struggle with the forum format. We have lost a bunch of members of our forum simply because they thought the layout was too difficult to navigate and they forgot to log on. Folks have got used to things like Facebook, and want everything to be delivered in that same format, or instead using Facebook itself.
I think that we are rapidly reaching the point where folks want everything online to be Facebook... I find that kind of sad.
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